I've noticed the wife is loving on me more than before but we are entering the next (probably long) period of no sex. I'm going to concentrate hard on being ok with this and happy on my own. I realize I am lucky compared to many on this forum. I have read all of the situations and many are pretty rough. My heart goes out to you all. I hope that I can eventually be wise enough to say something helpful in other threads. I feel like a kid with this stuff sometimes. Learning as fast as I can.