Just to chime in on this, I think a lot of it is about seeking unconditional love and acceptance - and perhaps they gravitate back to where they came from in search of that.

Perhaps they didn't feel unconditionally loved as a child...and their level of self worth and self love is low - and then that validation is sought externally....and so on...

It is common for people to feel an 'impostor' in their own lives - ie: I shouldn't really be here and someone will discover that soon...again, which has foundations in low confidence.

Anyway - Irish, glad to hear you and your girls had a good festive season - and I hope 2017 is a great year for you all.

Xx

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus