Living with a WW (3)

[Jug]

Well, lying is a big one. Another is if we share finances, you gotta be on the same page. ww's spending has been more and more out of hand, looking like she's stocking up and doing shady money stuff.

I decided that her breaking these and not actually working to make them better, on top of the limbo, gives me no other option than to file to protect my son and me.

I did so and she was served today. She pushed to talk last night and shared that she was gonna file tomorrow.

I honestly hoped that filing might shake her up but that's not gonna happen and this wasn't a bluff. Reality might but I'm not holding out for that. I look forward to really separating and moving forward with my life. This has been abusive and I'm sick of looking over my shoulder. Some weight had been lifted but not all.