Sara, I hope you have not being offended by my post, but brainstorming is like a second nature for me and I went through so much with WH during his affairs, specially the first one, he just couldn't let her go for a few months after I caught them the first time. They kept in communication. Double guessing is now in me.

I truly wish that he is just only extremely ambivalent and he is pushing your buttons to figure out (in a very MLCer mind way) what he wants to do.

Do you still wear you wedding ring? Mine told me that me wearing it was something comforting, proof that I still cared for him, weird isn't it! There is an article about the LBS as being the Lighthouse, did you read it?

I hope that you health issues will be resolved soon. You are such a strong woman, I truly admire you. That journey is a roller coaster emotional.


Me 52+ WH 57+
Married 20 +
Piecing since 2016 (ready to give up...)