Irish

interesting about your xw fascination with a man who is like a deadbeat
especially when she had so much-
Maybe there is something to that in MLC land
It seems many Mlcers affair down maybe they dont feel good enough
or maybe its something about the way they were raised -among people who were not very successful in some ways in life..I guess I can only speak for my XH and I dont want to offend anyone

this is just a thought..what do u think?
I know my xh was raised among lower class and he couldn't accept his/our success
He also picked a controlling younger woman with psych issues who doesn't seem career driven or successful and also accepts him as he is and whatever jobs he gets
He left a nice home, a business and family to live in the midwest and work in a retail store
married a women who is addicted to prescriptions and her family is also addicted
But He will stay with her..I think he has found his element with her
with me, we were too different and raised differently as well-
He played the role for a while ,but couldn't do it
in the end he gravitated back to where he came from


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow