Should of said I saw her in the car the other day and she turned away and put her head down,
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
Just keep POSTING and one other bit of advice from Wonka that I totally agree with.
Originally Posted By: Wonka
Get DR/DB book. Keep this to yourself. DO NOT share this book or this site at all with your spouse. It is your playbook and not to be shared with the "opposing" team.
It is important to clear the search/browsing history from your computer on a daily basis to prevent the possibility for your WAS to stumble on the DB site and discover your posts here on DB. Erasing the search history will protect your posts and you as well.
We have seen too many Marriages blow up in pieces after the WAS discovers the DB site or DR book. Why is that? It is because the WAS thinks, erroneously I might add, that you are "manipulating" them back into the M.
Keep the DR book and DB site very close to your vest.
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
Some times I can see it ,she has all ways loved me and still does I can just feel it'thats why I would like to know if she is in midlife crisis or not,is she in the tunnel and could she come out and come to her senses,she was a mother and wife for 30 years,she has kind of gone bad posesed or some thing this is not her,my daughter wanted her to babysit our grand daughter one day last week she all ways has before,but this time she said no so she could spend the day in hotel room with married coworker
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
That is she was good mother and wife for 30years,this is not her,I'm tottaly dumbfounded with how she is carrying on,but I do know her mum went the same and did the same but she was younger,
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
She was the one who first said she wanted a divorce but did not follow thru until I pushed her I sort of regret that now a bit ,but it was like stalemate not getting any where and making me I'll on off on off,but I know it only takes 1 hour to get married again,so I kinda don't let it upset me to much,I've got to laff really now ive found this site and all you great people ,if only I had found it sooner I could of done things different I guess,talk about roller coaster ride,its been like a roller coaster ride to hell and back,then after she got the divorce she said to me why dident you stop it ,but that was before the coworker saga
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
She has give me a good pasting with all this I'm down but not out,I still have a bit of fightleft in me ivI've not tottaly given up on her,I kinda think I owe her that because before all this she was good woman we did everything together even changing engines on cars,you name it we did it,
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
I'm living now with out her in my life not spoke since July,and if I have to carry on with out her I will,I have learnt how to manage with out her,but I do miss her my mum tells me we had a special bond and we did,
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
Some times I can see it ,she has all ways loved me and still does I can just feel it'thats why I would like to know if she is in midlife crisis or not,is she in the tunnel and could she come out and come to her senses,she was a mother and wife for 30 years,she has kind of gone bad posesed or some thing this is not her,my daughter wanted her to babysit our grand daughter one day last week she all ways has before,but this time she said no so she could spend the day in hotel room with married coworker
When all this happened to me I would describe my W as being possessed by an alien. Even her eye colour changed.
Dig deep for patience.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
