WW asks for divorce, what now?

[Jrnymn]

Thank you for your words. Yes I have the book and reread sections that come up and I need to see it in a new light. My computer is at work or my phone which no one gets on ever. I am focusing on them right now. I think this is what has pushed her over. She has lost control over me, so she is scrambling to get it some how. I have a great attorney and he fights for staying together but also believes to protect yourself. document as if its the worse, act like its the best. I see where she is going and where her path is going to take her. I love her so much and am fearful like I would be with a child, I am having a hard time not forgiving her but holding her accountable and responsible for her choices. I know as I do she gets more of the truth to deal with. That will only help her, but I still wish it wasn't going this way but I have accepted that though I see the potential and I have forgiven her and can see the possibilities, its because I am in a good place. I keep educating and finding more support and places of growth. She seems depressed and just keeps giving up on more and more things.