What should I be doing now (Time to Move on?)

[Coconut]

Hey y'all,

Sandy, I didn't necessarily stop posting, but I had an emotional couple of weeks after Thanksgiving and my son's, my stbxw, and my birthdays all within a 3 week period. It all added up and by my birthday I was in a bad place as far as she is concerned, so I cancelled my planned birthday lunch with my in-laws and stopped all communication with anyone having to do with my ww, and stopped coming here to just get away from all things having to do with my sitch.

By Christmas I was back in a good place, and thoroughly enjoyed Christmas with my Family (we did an all day pajama party at my moms house), and although I didn't do anything for New Years, that was just a decision I made because I didn't want to. I've been hanging out with friends, doing a lot of fishing, and I bought myself a very nice drone for Christmas and have been playing around with that a lot.

Not much going on with WW, still no communication from her and I'm not communicating with her (except I did have two nights were I layed into her again, I know not a good idea but I was sharing my bad place with her). I want to file for divorce, but everytime I sit down to continue filling out the paperwork, I get fed up with having to get all the accounts information, balances, etc. and I just put it down to do later.

We see each other at work, not much, but when we do we both just ignore the other (like at the Christmas party). That's pretty easy for me since I have a lot of friends at work, so I just keep my focus on them, although every now and then I will see her walk by and it does have a small impact on me, but nothing much more than what you would feel if you saw an old friend walk by.

I've been lacking in the gym, so I made my way back there yesterday, gonna try and do 45 minutes every day until I get back in the swing of things and then I'll change to a longer less frequent work out, but right now I just want to get in the habit of going there.

As for me, I'm still looking to move up north, I finally had an interview today for a position that I applied for in August, interview went well so I'm pretty hopeful, and that would put me in NC in February. It's not the ideal location for me, its further from the mountains than I wanted to go, but it's a good position for me, so I may settle for now and look to move closer in a year or so. The plus side is that the drive back home would be 3 hours less than where I want to move, making coming back for weekends with my son easier.