She moved out...now the work begins...Part 4

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I have also read that sometimes we need to let them go through with the D for them to realise that it wasn't the answer. Also I've read quite a few sitches where a quick D never bodes well for the WAS as they haven't had time to process anything of what they are doing. I am hoping and praying though that it doesn't have to get to this stage.

IMO when people constantly put up photos on social media of them enjoying themselves I think they are just trying to prove a point. She is trying to prove that she can have a life without you. If she was so confident then she wouldn't need too prove it. Anyway I hate things like FB!

Thanks for coming over Coly...it is always nice to hear for new people and also get new VP's...both from men and women. We are all fighting the same fight. May he grant us the strength to stand for as long as we can.

I can see that she has to have it over with...I just hope and pray that her eyes are opened to the fact that that wasn't the right answer. She has always been the type to get or do what she wants right when she decides on it...there is no planning or waiting for things...hence the rush, and yes she is tunnel surfing right now.

Hang in there, its been said the secret to this is to out last the crisis ... as you hinted its a one sided D, in other words its her D and allow her to do the heavy lifting.

Hey CaliGuy...I can out last the crisis...I just might be doing it from the outside of the M looking in. I guess as they say...the first M is dead anyway.

Did some reading on the prodigal spouse thing over the break...it is intense...I am praying for all of our H/W's to return to us in a much better way this new year.

Matthew 10:26
“Therefore do not be afraid of them. Nothing is concealed that will not be revealed, nor secret that will not be known.*

Happy New Year to you both!!!