Happy New Year all. Aren't you glad 2016 is over? Worst. Year. Ever. I've made it through one year past BD (11/4/15) and then all sorts of one-year-milestones - the day W said ow is "in my heart" - the day she told me her decision to leave me was final (1/1/16 - great way to start the year) -- finding out that New Years Eve was the night their EA went to PA. At midnight this year I burst into tears at the thought of how they celebrated last year. But I quickly dried the tears and accepted W's embrace. 1/15 is the day I had to move out. This year that day will be just a blip on the radar screen.
I'm lucky and I know it. Hang in there, all of you still fighting for your M's. Some of you will reconcile. Some of you will find happiness in your new lives separate from that person who has caused so much pain. The darkness won't last forever.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
