She moved out...now the work begins...Part 4

[Coly23]

Hey SBJ, just thought I would pop over to your thread as you were so kind as to visit me.

I haven't read through your whole sitch but I will do shortly. Sound like your W is well into the tunnel with going out and her need to D.

I have also read that sometimes we need to let them go through with the D for them to realise that it wasn't the answer. Also I've read quite a few sitches where a quick D never bodes well for the WAS as they haven't had time to process anything of what they are doing. I am hoping and praying though that it doesn't have to get to this stage.

IMO when people constantly put up photos on social media of them enjoying themselves I think they are just trying to prove a point. She is trying to prove that she can have a life without you. If she was so confident then she wouldn't need too prove it. Anyway I hate things like FB!