Am I in withdrawal ... will he ever wake up

[Lana_71]

Thanks job ... actually he never complained about my msg.. and sometimes he Thankwd me for sending pictures... he was always thankful even when I asked anything to do with kids as if he doesnot expect to be included ... but this frustrated me cause I felt he was distance and doesnot care ... it is like thank you for putting the effort ... but he will never request to be included .. i guess feels weird that he always felt an outsider .. not a father or a husband who has any say in his kids and how they are raised .. it was my feeling that I put effort in keeping him informed and still he doesnot want to be responsible or even an active participant . Keeps all relations on surface never tries to understand how anyone feels wants dreams even his kids ...anyway his birthday is coming will send him a short birthday msg on his birthday.... kids didnot answer his msg to the group... I didnot discuss it...will leave it up to them .... I feel they just don't know what to say to him so they opt to silence....