She moved out...now the work begins...Part 4

[SBJ]

Happy New Year to everyone...I hope and pray that 2017 will be a year of positive results for all of us here.

I saw a NY morning quote from Tony Robbins that said...Decide who you will become, what you will give, and how you will live. I thought it describes all of us here pretty well. We are becoming stronger people, giving more of ourselves, and trying to live awesome quality lives for ourselves and our families.

Journal:
The W is continually talking about the divorce process and seems to be pushing forward full steam ahead. She is asking questions regarding money and retirement accounts and the like. She is talking about the house appraisal and asking about my refinancing options. It is very frustrating.

She is also posting pics of her out and about with alot of new girlfriends that she has made since the BD...this is frustrating to me, but I also realize that she is trying to find herself or find what she thinks is missing, I guess.

I almost feel that I am going to have to go thru with the D and hope and pray that we might be able to reconcile on the other side. Someone said on the threads a while back that the MLC'er sometimes has to carry out the D all the way thru before they realize that that wasn't the problem in the first place. It is crazy to me, but maybe that is just me. Our entire family (kids, parents, aunts & uncles) and most of our friends know that this is a one-sided D, so it kind of stinks to know that I have so many people that understand, but there is nothing I can do, but ride the storm.