Why are you pushing to have sec when you know it's only making things worse? SHES tired of all the pressure and you just keep on applying it.
because I gave her 3 months of no pressure and nothing changed. because some minimal amount of physical love is part of a healthy relationship.
As ginger said, your R isn't healthy right now. Sounds like your thought is that being physically intimate will repair your R. For her, it works the opposite - being physically intimate is expression of her being in a healthy R. So every kiss or touch or other physical act just reminds her of the unhealthiness.
