Why are you pushing to have sec when you know it's only making things worse? SHES tired of all the pressure and you just keep on applying it.
because I gave her 3 months of no pressure and nothing changed. because some minimal amount of physical love is part of a healthy relationship.
physical love that has to be pressured, isn't enjoyed, and angers your spouse is not a part of a healthy relationship.
Your relationship is not healthy right now. This is probably making it unhealthier. The other parts of your relationship need ot get healthy before this part does.
This has to do more with your physical needs than having a healthy relationship. It will set you back rather than move your forward in salvaging the marriage.
Fair enough. I will continue to try and ignore my needs. After 3 months I missed her so badly that even second rate sex was worth it to me.
