FG -- I wish I had something better to say to you that would help more. I'm confident that you have what it takes to weather whatever ends up coming your way. I know how difficult in-house separation is, but you have strength and honor in spades. Your kids know it and will always know it, even if your W has gone off on a different path. Hang in there. Here's to 2017 being a better year for all of us.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)
