It's possible that she doesn't even think her flirting is wrong
Let me ask you something. If she discovered you were continually flirting with another woman.......would she see it as being wrong? Would she accept as just being playful and nothing serious.......or would she be hurt/angry? There is an old saying that goes, "What's good for the goose is good for the gander". Does she have a set of different rules for you?
I'm not sure currently. I know that in the past good years of our relationship she would not have accepted it. she would probably still not like it now.
