PatientMan - What are your thoughts on applying the 37 in a WW sitch? Sandi advises more of a tough love approach.
Based on what I have read, you seem to be more in a newcomer mode...trying to get a hold of your situation and control of yourself, not so much a person who is in the position to reconcile his M. I understand that *you* may be ready for reconciliation, but it doesn't mean she is.
Let me know if I am misunderstanding your sitch.
PatientMan - You nailed it. I am in newcomer mode, definitely not in a position to think about reconciling, as WW refuses to end EA & go NC.
My mission currently (on top of following your action plan) is to get on top of boundaries. These have been lacking throughout our R, and putting them in place now, well let's just say I am finding it exceptionally difficult.
Thank you.
-- Me: 47 WW: 35 SS: 17 D: 5 T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016. OEA continues (with occasional breaks) BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18
