Yeah, dump him. Sure it's nice to be pursued; but the kind of pursuing that includes him being pissed you won't come to his house on a second (third?) date????

That's the kind of pursuing that's just all about getting laid.

He's clever, he suckered you into that date by challenging you to prove you weren't "too independent " or a feminist snob. Now he's enticing you with promises of introducing you to his friends.

Seriously: on this date, how much sincere interest did he show in your life?

He doesn't give me a good feeling.