Hi Job, thank you for asking about me. My health is maybe ok, who knows. More tests are needed, I have all the referrals to specialists I need, this will take time. But apparently there is no rush, so I have lots of stuff to do in the months ahead.
Re, filling. Our assets have already been divided and decided upon. We would file the paperwork ourselves (well, one person has to do it and the other signs it then the judge then done) We can even waive papers being served and have them come in the mail. We are splitting everything basically in half, as we came into the M, in our discussion about it ages ago there was virtually no difference in our mindsets. I cannot see how this would change at present. So, if he did file and didn't follow through or any other permutation, we'd only be out a few hundred bucks. But, this is the kind of thing I would think you wouldn't want to drag on for years and years.
me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016