My role just being a good husband allways there for her no matter what we was very close then her father died who she was very close with to just before she changed my children also say she changed when he died early 2011,since then she is not her self,she loved her dad dearly but never cried I couldent understand that,her mum left her dad when she was 10 and brought them all up alone her and 3 brothers and she kind of took mums job when she said about divorce I was blindsided,I don't think I did anything much wrong never hit her or been unfathfull or any thing like that but we did have arguments like couples do but she was in with kind of the wrong croud'and yes I think I was to soft and she treated me like a doormat ,I had not long had an heart attack and knocked the stuffing out of me,so wasent my self I suppose'


Me 56 w52
M30 years
4x adult kids
W dad died/11
W wanted d 03/12
In-house sep 03/12
D 2014 I pushed
W Left on 02/16 I pushed
Pa on 07/16
Nc after 07/16
W Cakeating 15to16
Me doormat 12to16
Limbo 12to16