CT, you ascribe so much agency in your choice to snoop. And maybe you're right. But as I see it, our fate is already sealed: there was no other path you could have taken. We loved our spouses so much, there was no other way. We were destined to stab our hearts with the blade of black truth. We needed to stab it to kill the old heart, to be able to move on, to live.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final