I think The MLC justifies they actions In her message to the girls, she is still believing her own lies and justifications by putting the blame on them for "not Forgiving her" I often saw my MLC XH lie about so much while we still had contact years back and wondered how do they do it- and live with themselves I think it is part of their very strong denial system unfortunaltely denial keeps one living in addiction and no one can break the denial until they see it if ever
Good for your D for setting strong boundaries
Recently MY D saw a Facebook message from her Dad to another person expressing he is not doing well But obviously he is still not ready to clean up if he is still struggling I also let him go-He will figure it out if he is supposed to
MY kids although like other teens and young adults have their issues but somehow they have both grown into mature and loving people They hardly speak of their dad and they seem to understand the MLC-Addiction problem he has so I am grateful that they have adjusted and yours are and will too They see our strength and they see how we react and live..they let go of the parent who is now in the past
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