It's not a matter of whether I like what you did or not...but how you feel about your actions. If you are comfortable w/your decision to post a message to him, then that is all that matters.
If you think going NC isn't working for you, then try something else. Maybe try a light message in a couple of weeks...but keep your message very light. Of course, you know the drill...keep your expectations very low. If you sense that he's getting annoyed w/your messages, then stop. There is absolutely no right or wrong way when dealing w/a WAW or MLCer. Each situation is different and each LBS will need to figure out what works best in their situation.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
