Happy New Year to all you lovely people here! Go into 2017 knowing that you are awesome, loyal, hard-working, dedicated and introspective individuals with a great capacity for love.
I am doing very well. My life is very good, better than it has been for years, maybe ever! The only thing I really need to focus on now is creating financial safety for myself and get my own place to live. This is my main resolution for 2017.
The reason I'm in this good place is because I GAL'ed extensively and found myself in the process. Then someone found me because I was a happy, busy person with a life of my own.
I want to put my M behind me. I have talked to a few L and they all think I will spend more than it's worth on trying to get an at-fault D. There's too many loopholes.
There is a way for me to protest a no-fault D passively - I simply do nothing. That way, I won't have to sign my name to a lie. WH will get his D in time even if I don't respond. (It will also cost me nothing.) Right now, that looks like the best option. The financials were all settled at the S, so there's no need to get involved.
I wish for peace of mind and new happiness for everyone here in the new year.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17