I watched Gladiator and there are a plethora of one-liners that carry good philosophy. One of my favorites are, "Some days I do what I want to do, most days I do what I have to do." The more macho one I've seen posted here is, "Strength and honor."

Keep both in mind and you will find more often you are ok than spinning.

M 10yrs T 13yrs
BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW
BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off
Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce
April '17-Letting go
2018 D busted
DD8, DS6, DS3