Irish - as a mother myself, I just cringe for your XW. It's remarkable to see the iciness all via the safety of texting.
But, I am in awe at the maturity of your girls. They are far more mature than their mother. Bizarre, but I see it all the time over here, too.
Wishing you and your ladies the best in 2017!
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced