Infidelity/WAH, my story pt 8

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You are starting to have your life back... so happy for you and your children, is mom is happy, the kids are happy.

It seems that your husband is starting to feel left aside, good, it gives him a taste of the single life, but apparently it is not very satisfying... he is starting to see a change in you. He is losing control and it doesn't please him, most probably he assumed all these past months that you were a safe plan B in case plan A won't work (separation, OW), he assumed you were not going anywhere, you were too attached to him, he just had his snap his fingers to keep you as a "good wife".
The control he had is slipping away and he is seeing his kids and you having a good time away from him.
Don't expect him to communicate with you, he is most probably in the Depression/Withdrawal stage if he is done with replay, so stay away... the more you will push him the more he will go away. Mine is still in it but with MLCers the progress are very slow and very subtle and very often it is 3 steps forward, 2 steps back. Nerve wrecking that's why GAL, Detaching, Going dark, Boundaries are crucial for our sanity.