I am very glad to read that you had a good holiday. I'm sorry your h didn't spend more time w/the family...but we all know that the ski trip was all he cared about and certainly didn't want to have his parents questioning him about what he's doing.
I'm glad you called him out on some of his lies. Sometimes we have to do that and then things settle down again for a while.
Congratulations on the graduation party. I'm sure you were surprised and enjoyed the time w/your friends.
Here's to 2017! May the new year bring all of us peace and happiness.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.