Ciluzen I'm sorry about your daughter's issues. I cannot imagine how hard it must have been for you to not turn up the hospital. I hope she is doing better.
Reading about your conversations with you mum reminded me of my chats with MIL over Christmas. On several occasions I had to remind her that H wants his D, and nothing we can do can change his mind now.
I wish you and your family a happy new year xxx
"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"
“There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?”
