On Pinterest and I came across this quotation:

'Keep your feelings and self worth in separate places. When your feelings get hurt, it should not change how you feel about yourself'.

I like it. I don't know if I quite get it yet, but I like it.

Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017