A stronger me for whatever the future holds

[PacLove]

Wow what a change! But thought I'd share the good news for those out there in limbo land.

W opened up the R discussion this week asking what should we do... I'll spare most of the details out of respect for her, but the A is apparently over, she showed genuine remorse and honesty about what's been going on. The way she talked about the A is so textbook, it had run it's course, he wanted more she wasn't willing to, caught up in the excitement etc.

We are both not sure what is next, but the good news is we are "talking". I had actually came to the conclusion of either outcome about a month ago and was looking to move on..

We have a long road ahead whichever path we take. One comment I will share though - healthy boundaries are important but be careful they don't come off as being bitter. Two things she shared with me that hurt her the most in the past year were a feeling I was being bitter and a feeling of not being safe due to my snooping - that is apparently what drove her to move out and what scares her most about coming back.