How do you guys do it!? How do you not retaliate? I am so tempted to go see her family and explain what she is doing as well as her close friends. Some people say this is a good idea while others say it isn't. I do feel like it would at least put pressure on her to see that what she is doing is wrong.
What is your goal?
Does "retaliating" get you closer to it? If not, then it's pretty easy to choose what to do.
