How do you guys do it!? How do you not retaliate? I am so tempted to go see her family and explain what she is doing as well as her close friends. Some people say this is a good idea while others say it isn't. I do feel like it would at least put pressure on her to see that what she is doing is wrong.
One does it by making the choice to not retaliate... Temptation is not a good feeling to follow in most cases... Many here would say it is not a good idea because you are not in a good place or mental state to handle the blowback... How has following your "feelings" been working out so far?
I beleive it is sandis tag line that says, it's not about doing what you "feel" works...it's about doing the work that gets the right results... Perhaps you should sit still for a spell, listen up to the wisdom you are being provided here and go against your " instincts" to do what has been proven in the actions of those that have gone through this before you.... You share a lot about what she is doing... What are you doing for yourself?
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
