Forgiveness does not balance on the worthiness of the offender. The offender cannot work to be good enough to be forgiven of their transgressions. The offender can express remorse and show a willingness to make amends........however, they cannot earn forgiveness. It is not about if they deserve forgiveness, or not.
The act of forgiveness is an act of grace. The entire point of forgiveness is that the offender does not deserve it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
