maybe ginger. Thanks for responding.


He had to have been depressed. We had both moved in with my parents for a year. That was horrible and if we didn't we probably would not be divorced. Unhappy yes. But probably not divorced.

He worked so much though and was really good at his job. If he wasn't they would have gotten rid of him for coming in late all the time.

But I think being married made him depressed. Not being able to make it here made him depressed. And I think he was modeling his parents marriage and I was modeling mine. We were dysfunctional.

I wonder if he is happier now? No responsibility and he gets to work without someone complaining. He has no one to answer to. I am sure he is happier.

To be honest, I think I would be fine with all of this if I was able to afford my own place for me and son.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer