Telling certain people can hurt chances for reconciliation. The other thing to consider is that they may even take their side. I get that the situation is desperate but you have other cards to play.
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om
