Thank you everyone for all the advice and suggestions. I am going to offer her the time. XW has clearly shown she has moved on with her life and is just going to document what she feels are my shortcomings with the boys in order to get custody. I cannot let the fear stop me from trying to do what I need to do in order to settle into our new place and find a nanny to help out with the kids.
I have been feeling sad these last couple of days, missing XW a lot. Still unpacking and organizing in our new home. Going to buy some party favors for the boys and have some fun with them tonight for NYE.
I wish everyone the best this coming new year and hope that everyone has more happiness and looks for the positives in life.
This is my last post on newcomers, I will continue to post, but it is time for me to move on and will be posting under surviving the D as I think XW and I have a long road ahead of us with respect to the boys and custody still.
Happy New Year to all!
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...