Hi Scrant, it's always up to you of course. But I suspect if you do meet up, your W will be suggesting she cooks for you at home on a weekly basis etc, etc...
Really, I would do what works for you, given all circumstances. If it doesn't work for you to meet up, don't do it - I don't think you are having an over-reaction.
Glad you had a nice festive visit with your family and best wishes for the year ahead.
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
