Help - Setting Boundaries, WW in EA - Thread #2

[Surfer]

Woke_Up,

I am partly pleased and partly sad to tell you that this book will change you. It is Pandora's Box. When (if - it's a choice) you read and underline those bits that resonate. Flick through the pages and see how many you have identified with.

You will probably feel a 'fool' for being misled. But love did this. You ignored the sign posts. As did I. However, remember that it will strengthen you. It will make you SuperDad. You will have skills that can help you D and SS with. And you must help him too - I am sure it's different.

Also remember she is not bad. She is mixed up. You didn't do this to her. You only tried to love her. Yes, of course, you made mistakes. But would they be so abnormal for any W to take this route? No.

Read and ask questions if you need to. I will help you where I am able. I am not expert, at all, but I know what I know through what you are doing. Like I say, months if not years ahead. I will help you to help all of you. You W included.

Keep on keeping on.

Surfer.