My feeling is that this is part of detaching and making it clear that you aren't her friend or family while she is doing this. Stay strong.
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om