Back home after a nice week with my parents. Only contact with W was a message to tell her we'd arrived safely and a bit of info about S. Texted her to today with a bit of financial information. She phoned to ask cheerfully about our holiday as S hadn't told her much more than a couple of pictures. Chatted for a while about S and I asked what her New Day's plans were for her and S (It is her birthday). She told me that she wasn't going to met S but she'd like for the three of us to meet for lunch sometime the week after. I didn't confirm anything, she's texted this afternoon asking could I confirm which day would be best. Haven't replied. It seems to me to be cake eating. New Year's Eve and day with OM then family during the week. Over the yearI've told her that meeting up doesn't work for me but the delusion still seems in place. Or I am overreacting and a family meal would do no harm and possibly help normalise S's R with his mother?


Me:48
W:45
S:15
M:17
T: 25
Separated: Oct 2015