Hey Don! I bet he waited until after the holiday because he didn't want to have to buy a present!!!
So, this is what I did. I told him exactly the way things were. I told him how I felt about the things he said and how I felt disrespected and like he talked to me like one of the guys. he further goes to tell me he doesn't think that's why I wasn't interested anymore. I told him it absolutely was. he is convinced otherwise because he thinks there are always going ot be things that bother eachother does that the other might not like and that's not a reason to be together. and he said something to the effect of bringing those up later rather than earlier. Which I told him makes no sense to wait to bring up things that makes the other feel uncomfortable. However, he is completely convinced it has nothing to do with what I said it had to do with! He said it had to do with the "strong independent women types". I was like "what?!" he said he would have to explain in person. I said I needed to hear this theory. We are going out for a drink tonight which may be a big mistake, but curiosity is killing me. This is my life! A very sad dating life!
On a better note, I did 1000 reps of really tough exercises in just over 30 min. I was so proud I showed my sheet to everyone. I even sent to exh because we used to work out together. He was pretty impressed and even came on facetime when D9 called to tell me so.
D9 now has an ipad at his house. Which means she calls me first thing in the morning, 3 times during the day and once before bed, lol. I am touched that she calls me so much. She never calls her dad when she is with me.
So, this new years eve I will be kissing the dog. I am so excited for my plans, but it's going to be a little difficult to be all the same couples, minus who was my other half last year. it was nice getting kissed at midnight last year. Eh, I was stone cold sober last year because I agreed to drive because we had the kids. This year, I most certainly will not be:)
