Final, final point. If she smokes the odd spliff. Most likely so do you. Don't. No excessive drink and no drugs are a total No NO.
Surfer - thanks mate. You've written loads and I will digest and get back to you. Really appreciate it all.
I thought I'd answer this point though - as most of my contracts are in the rail industry, with he ever present possibility of a random drug & alcohol test, I can confidently say there are no drugs of any type for me. Weed is the worst and it stays in your system the longest. I would never jeopardise my ability to provide for my family. I'm not holier than though, I have dabbled in the past, but this is now. I barely even get to crack a beer these days.
Cheers
-- Me: 47 WW: 35 SS: 17 D: 5 T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016. OEA continues (with occasional breaks) BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18
