Patricia Evans, who is an expert on Verbally Abusive behavior and wrote many books, says that in her experience she has never seen a woman who is verbally abusive change. I am a verbally abusive man and controlling person. My marriage may not make it because of it. But I've worked very hard on me and my issues, but it's going to be a lifelong effort to work on this. It's something that was engrained in me over time when I was younger. I think it's best you detach and do your best to move forward. I know that's really tough, but it may be best I believe.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
