About Last Night.....

[DonH]

I guess I have a bit of a different take on several levels. First, my gut would tell me that she never saw you as more than a friend in the first place. Because I was not there, that's just a guess. Now on the other hand I also put as much stock in she was interested. I may actually put more stock in that. She clearly wanted to do things. She asked you over many times, extended times together with you. Yet, you did nothing to foster that or show her you were interested. She may have figured that she gave you multiple signals and opportunities but you never took them - therefore you are not interested. I personally think you should have tried a bit more and let her know. She clearly was ready to date SOMEONE. Girls often will respond and get a more romantic feeling if things go that direction. From my view, you friend zoned Yourself.

I just say these thing so you might use it as a learning expierence for the next time - with her or with someone else.

And then it doesn't bother you? You don't care? Honestly? You seemed rather interested and hopeful in her to now not care. It's alright if you did. If you truly did not, she may have sence that as well. It may also be why you didn't try to take Things to the next level