WW still goes to the OM's house many nights a week, a
How do you know this?
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I have fallen back into the slump of not being able to eat, not being able to sleep, not being able to focus on anything other than the situation.
Who can change this?
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We are still in "limbo" waiting on W to decide if she wants to work on the M or not,
Correction, "we" are not waiting on W to decide anything. Don't you see she is playing you? everytime you tell youself she is waiting to decide what she wants to do.......STOP and rememberthat it is YOU that is waiting for her. As long as she thinks you are pining away for her, safely at home.....just waiting.......waiting......while she is sleeping with another man......why would she get in any hurry? maybe you don'tknow much about women and relationships, but it doesn't work this way.
Get out of that house. Stay out every night for two weeks, and she'll be calling and quizzing you about a girlfriend.....and she won't like it. It is the wayward wife's mindset. if you stop being available.....and WAITING......you the limbo will change.
Stop watching what she does. It is killing you, remember?
I know this because obviously I am watching what she is doing. I don't disagree that I need to get out more, but I want to make it clear that this would have no impact on her. Sandi, you said she won't like it if I do that, and that she will think I have a girlfriend. She won't even know if I am going out. We live 30 minutes apart, and she never comes down this way as she is too busy going to her AP's house.
