Sara this is about the legal ramifications... Not what is "parentally " right or wrong. I know it sux, but with a crazy S decisions like this have to be made in a different lenses to avoid legal custody issues.
Your point makes sense with a co parent of a reasonable nature...this sitch makes choices like this a slippery slope.
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Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
Thank you everyone for all the advice and suggestions. I am going to offer her the time. XW has clearly shown she has moved on with her life and is just going to document what she feels are my shortcomings with the boys in order to get custody. I cannot let the fear stop me from trying to do what I need to do in order to settle into our new place and find a nanny to help out with the kids.
I have been feeling sad these last couple of days, missing XW a lot. Still unpacking and organizing in our new home. Going to buy some party favors for the boys and have some fun with them tonight for NYE.
I wish everyone the best this coming new year and hope that everyone has more happiness and looks for the positives in life.
This is my last post on newcomers, I will continue to post, but it is time for me to move on and will be posting under surviving the D as I think XW and I have a long road ahead of us with respect to the boys and custody still.
Happy New Year to all!
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
I'll miss you here in the "old hood". Please make sure you check in on us all.
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M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017
