So Stbxw texts today with the same lead in question "how is ur dad" and how is so and so (my Mom's friend who had a stroke). I told her my dad was doing great and the other lady was still the same. W wanted me to tell my mom she is sorry about her friend and that she is praying for her.

Then she asked about my friends here and if I had seen them. I said I was going out tonight. She told me 3 times to stay or use uber and to be safe. We talked about football and her back and her family. Obviously SOW was gone.

I just don't get why she cares, she filed for D. I know cake eating, keeping plan b, guilt?? I am to the point where it doesn't give me hope or sadness or any feeling really. I don't want to be friends and I have told her this....

Maybe now that my dad is getting better she won't ask. Idk. I probably should stick to DB and only reply as necessary but since she filed I didn't know whether to stay that course. Any thoughts? 2x4's? :-)


W:42 M:48
T:9 yrs M:1yr
BD: Feb 2016
EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016
D: Feb 2017