Just stopping by to let you know that you are in my thoughts dear Sara. Totally agree with Bluwave. Detach +++ and Gal +++ You will never convince him to say or do whatsoever while he is in full "limbo", so detach and after a while you might notice some touch and go from his part, don't get overexcited by it, play it cool and keep your distance. Mine is begging me (in in his own way), to go on vacation with me, he even books an NYE dinner in the fanciest restaurant in town, I told him at first I was not sure if it was something I wanted to do... He got upset, I reliantly accepted ( I was dying to go)...
Me 52+ WH 57+ Married 20 + Piecing since 2016 (ready to give up...)